When I was younger, Lamentations was NOT my go-to book of the Bible, except for chapter 3:22, 23, the verses that must have inspired the old hymn, “Great is Thy Faithfulness”. All the negativity and lamenting and sadness and depression found in this book seemed so overwhelming, and since it has a lot of poetic language, I also found it hard to understand.
Today’s Scripture was definitely not on my list of favorites:
“Let him sit alone and be silent
Since He has laid it on him.
Let him put his mouth in the dust,
Perhaps there is hope.”
Lamentations 3:28, 29 NASB
But as I have gotten older, I have experienced more and more sadness. Loved ones die, divorces happen, family and friends move away to distant locations, and friends share the griefs that they are experiencing with me. The burdens can be quite, well, quite burdensome!
I’ve learned that in this life on this earth, God has given us the gift of tears to deal with all this sadness and that He can handle, and even invites, our laments, as we lift up our cries to Him.
- Job did it.
- David did it.
- Jeremiah did it.
- And even our Lord Jesus Christ did it: “My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?” he cried out from the cross.
So, what’s this about putting one’s mouth in the dust, anyway? Is Jeremiah telling us that we should eat dirt?
I don’t believe so. I believe this is poetic language for the posture that we are to have before God as we prostrate ourselves before Him, face to the ground, calling out to Him from the most ragged brokenness of our hearts.
Eugene Peterson put it this way in his paraphrase:
“When life is heavy and hard to take,
go off by yourself. Enter the silence.
Bow in prayer….Wait for hope to appear.” Lamentations 3:28, 29 The Message
Look at these examples of those without hope who bowed before Jesus:
- a leper (Matthew 8:2),
- a synagogue official whose daughter had just died (Matthew 9:18),
- a desperate foreign mom begging for deliverance and healing for her daughter (Matthew 15:25),
- and a demon possessed man (Mark 5:6).
The Lord looked with compassion on each one and healed and delivered those who needed it and even raised the official’s daughter from the dead! These people dared to hope that Jesus could help them.
They cried out to Him, face to the ground, and
- He took notice,
- He had compassion on them,
- and He rewarded their hope and lifted up their heads to face Him with grateful rejoicing hearts!
But what if the person you were praying for died or continued on with his evil plans? Is there still hope for you?
With God, the answer is a resounding “YES!”
In Psalm 22, just a few verses after the psalmist prophesies of the future sufferings of the Messiah, he says,
“You who fear the LORD, praise Him;” (verse 23),
“For He has not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted; Nor has He hidden His face from him; But when he cried to Him for help, He heard.” (verse 24, emphasis mine)
Sometimes we may feel like God has hidden His face from us, but He has not, even though He has not answered our prayers the way we had hoped He would.
Perhaps you are in a place where you feel there is nothing good in your life anymore, and your life is no longer worth living.
I understand. But let me tell you from experience, sister, there is still hope in God! Don’t give up!
God’s Word was such a comfort to me during those dark, soul-crushing days. Verses like the following reminded me that there was still hope:
“I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.” Psalm 27:13 NASB
I couldn’t see what that good might be, but I believed that it was true for me, too.
And it’s also true for you!
I have discovered the hard way that my hope was not supposed to be in the one I lost in the first place. My hope is supposed to be in God!
And in some strange way, coming to the end of my rope and to the point of bowing on the floor in recognition that He is my only hope, I have found Him who is also my Peace, my Joy, the only true Lover of my soul.
The One who knows me best, warts and all, is also the One who loves me unconditionally forever. He never even sleeps! So I can rely on His love and listening ear 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, every day of every year!
He promised me decades ago that He would “never leave me nor forsake me”, and He never has, and He never will!
And sister, you can trust Him, too. There is still hope for you in the land of the living! Bow before Him and cry out to Him and wait for the salvation of the Lord.
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Wow, this is excellent. Saving it. Thank you for addressing sorrowing before God Biblically. We have so many examples of bowing down before God in sorrow and waiting His hope in the Scripture- but it seems like what we focus on today is “how to get over it” and “how to claim the victory.” There is a place for weeping before God! And He is so gracious and loving to us! Thank you for this!
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Thanks, Bethany! I’m glad this is a blessing to you.
I wonder if we focus on “how to get over it” for ourselves or because of the not-so-understanding people in our lives that expect us to get over it quickly? Really, it’s not about them. Job’s friends were also “sorry comforters”. They figured they had the solution, and if Job would just admit that they were right and repent, then they could pat themselves on the back for having succeeded in lifting up their friend from his sorrow, and they could all move on with their lives as quickly as possible.
The lament is a deep conversation between the hurting one and his/her God, He being the only One who will wait with us patiently and bring healing to our souls in His own perfect time.
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I love the beautiful word picture you painted of eating dirt being us really prostrating ourselves, face to the ground, crying out to Him from the most ragged brokenness of our hearts.
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Thank you, Debbie! I’m so glad this spoke to you! Have a great week!
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Thank you for these insightful thoughts on lament. Also, thank you for sharing The Message translation of Lamentations 3:28, 29 . This is a very encouraging post!
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You’re welcome, Joy! And thank you for your visit! Have a blessed week! 🙂
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This is so good! Such important truths and insights here. Thank you so much for sharing this and for sharing how the Lord encouraged you and was by your side through difficult times. It’s so true that when we come to the end of ourselves we find Him in a way we never would have otherwise. I really appreciate what you have shared here.
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Thanks so much for your encouragement, Leslie! I’m very glad that this spoke to you.
And you’re right, coming to the end of ourselves is a wonderful place to be in the long run, though it may not seem like it at first. If we surrender ourselves to the Lord who loves us and wants us to have a relationship with Him in Christ Jesus, we find peace, joy, love, and satisfaction that eludes us as long as we live for ourselves instead of living wholeheartedly for Him.
May the Lord’s blessings be on you. Grace and peace.
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Ahhhh … Ruth! What hope you share here ♥ Thank you for this power packed and authentic post! It’s always a joy when I get to stop here in your hope-filled space.
Blessings and smiles,
Lori
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Thanks so much, Lori! I’m glad the Lord uses this space to bring you joy. Please feel free to share it with others!
Blessings and smiles to you as well! Have a great week! 😊
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This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with me on my blog. I’m glad you did. 🙂
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Thank you, dear! Giving you a hug across the miles. Love and prayers. 😊❤
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